Few new flowers...

I've been longing for her frndship.. Right from 2nd sem!! I never thot i wud get close to her.. speak to her.. tease her.. fight with her.. make her cry.. get a lot of help from her!! It all happened during march of last year.. Really a cute, highly motivated, vivacious, often forgetting, tooo mature girl with so much expressions in face!!! Her dances.. amazing!! Unexpected moments this time last year.. Became a lot close to her.. really unbelievable!!

I never that she would become my boss!! Saw her a couple of times earlier.. Happened to message her as an accident.. Friendship blossomed!! Ideas matched.. A really hard working, out spoken, enthusiatic, patient teasing boss!! Unexpected boss.. I became a good disciple to her teasings... and hard working a bit..

If this was last yr.. This yr... 2 new flowers..

I always dreamt of being a frnd of her for years.. So cute.. so childish.. at the same time a bit mature.. so puny.. so much expressions in face.. a really gooood dancer!! I never thot i wud even speak to her.. but.. after IV.. things changed.. starting knowing more abt her.. started liking her a lot!! Such an amazing character!!

I never wanted to speak to her.. I never wanted to move with her.. but.. situations changed.. i found her to be good.. good enough to have friendship with!! I started speaking to her.. A nice, out spoken, talkative girl with a sarcastic look [at times]!!.. Things are really changing in my life...

Summers have become springs to me these years.. New flowers in my garden!! I'm jus flattened by their fragnances.. Four years of silence has started speaking.. communicating.. chatting nowadays!! Still a month more to go.. waiting for new flowers in my garden.. New and peculiar ones.. Peculiar in their taste, color, fragnance!!

P.S. : I used to say "I hate girls!".. But.. that's self defensiveness as my frnds usually say!!! I cud realise that only now... !!!

Woo a woman!

Yesterday i happened to read an article in Metro Plus. About what to gift a woman.. Geetha Padmanabhan makes a big list...

• Hidesign bag
• sleek leather coin purse
• stylish clothes
• Ferrero Rocher chocolates
• flowers
• invigorating spa
• state-of-the art camera phone with bluetooth (precisely N-series)
• corkboard
• elegant photo frame
• comfy pillow
• bottled condiments
• gym membership
• DVDs
• cellphone holder with a shoulder strap or velcro loop
• travelling shoes
• mini purse to hold credit cards
• a 'bit' of cash
• your time - best gift

Hmm... what it takes for a man?? A small, cute, true smile in his ladylove's lips!! -- 'Priceless'

I could just think of 'Mastercard' add which quotes the price of costly things and ends with a tag - 'priceless!'

P.S.: To read the article.. The Hindu, Metro Plus, Pg.2, 'For a woman who has everything'!!

What is love?

I was wondering about this kind of 'relationship' for a long time. The reason being.. 'Every relationship in this world is as a result of some need. Only a few stays on even after the needs are satisifed!' Even the relationship between a mom and her child is for the reason that a woman wants to become a mom. The relationship continues even after the need is satisfied. The relationship between friends are for some reason. For e.g., doing projects, partying out, shopping, etc.. So does love!!

But then.. What is love?? In my perception, love is something divine... [not an usual dialogue]. In layman's language, as my ethics sir quotes, it is an umberalla virtue!! It encompasses in it care, affection, 'feeling' of doing anything and everything for the other, demanding things, controlled by and having control over others, sharing the joy, sorrow.. But then.. Very few realise the true real meaning of love!!

During school days.. Teacher would have taught us.. "Love thy parents.. Love thy neighbor!!". People take it differently and start loving the girl next door.. Here love stands for the chemistry-biology-history-geography-maths between a foolish boy and an intelligent girl or an intelligent boy and a foolish girl!!

But then.. U say u love ur dad.. mom.. brother/sister... and also.. ur lady love!! How come the meaning can differ between two different individuals?? Is the word "love" overloaded?? [as in oops!]. Well.. When u love ur parents, siblings and others.. Wont u love ur friend?? A friend of opposite sex?? [i cant use boy friend/girl friend for it stands for a different meaning.. which too is concerned with another overloaded meaning of love!!]. A girl can say "I love u" pointing to another girl.. But.. She cant say "I love u" to a boy who is her friend!! For the society.. the meaning differs!! Though neither she nor he would think so!! She could jus say "I like u!!".. where like stands for liking something in him.. his character, attitude, behavior, dressing sense.. watever!! Wat if i tell my friend, who happens to be a girl, "I love u!!"?? Will this society leave me to say so??

Why dont people think it as jus a feeling rather than some kind of relationship?? I know i've changed the meaning i've so far mentioned.. But.. love is a feeling rather than a relationship as perceived by many fools!! It's jus something like fear, anxiety, 'happyness' [inspired by the pursuit of happyness], joy, sorrow.. Whereas.. Friendship is a relationship!! Friendship encompasses love in it... Which when expressed in taken in a lot bad sense!!

And there are people who give 2 different spelling for love.. and two meanings also!! For them.. 'Love' refers to the chemistry-...-maths between two worthless stupids who have the feeling without knowing wat it is!! and 'Luv' refers to something between friends!! Hmmm.. Even oxford and cambridge couldnt provide such meaning.. The signature in a mail.. If it has 'with love'.. it's the bullshit.. If it is 'with luv'.. It's friendship!!!

And.. For Gautam Menon, director of Kaaka Kaaka, Patchai Kili Muthu Charam, he uses a different meaning!! If u had listened to Jothika's proposal to Suriya for the second time at the harbor.. She expresses a lot and says a particular english sentence too fast!! "I want to make love with u!!".. This is wat Sarathkumar often says to Andrea in PKMC.. Wat does he mean by love then?? Dont Gautam love his mom and dad?? The same thing with a woman who quoted love as a combination of affection and sex in kumudham!!!

Hmmm...

But there are people.. who want to avoid the word 'love' for these reasons!! One of my friends told me.. "Ennakku avalai pidikkum.. Avalai thaan kalyaanam pannikanum aasai padaraen!!.. But.. If u term this feeling to be wat many worthless idiots say as "love".. Am not for it!!.. " Hats off to him!!

Me caught in the illusions and delusions of the world.. For this worthless matter!!!